And baby makes 4

It seems as though the last 6 months, I just can't keep this blog updated! Well, a lot has happened with our family. On November 23, we welcomed our second daughter, Lauren Kathryn Wilkie. Even though it was 3 days past my due date, we were still taken a little by surprise. I had been experiencing Braxton Hicks contractions for several weeks and had even sat at home timing contractions a few times the week that she was born. The week before Lauren was born I saw my doctor and she strongly recommended that I not go past 41 weeks. I was very anxious about when Lauren's arrival was going to be because of the Sears store...Bradley HAD to work Black Friday, which was 6 days after my due date. (Claire was 8 days past her due date). My doctor had me schedule an ultrasound for 2 days after my due date for us to make sure the baby was still healthy and thriving. I was familiar with this because I went through it when I was pregnant with Claire too. However, with Lauren, unlike Claire, the ultrasound did not show that Lauren was "thriving". They measure several different movements as well as the level of fluid and on one of the tests, Lauren measured 1 out of 4...which didn't make the doctors happy. They recommended that I go in THAT NIGHT for an induction. I was SUPER sad...I even started crying at the appointment. I did NOT want to be induced again...I wanted this baby to come on his/her own time. (We did not find out the gender of Lauren before she was born...we did the same with Claire). Well I, of course, trusted my doctors and followed their recommendations and proceeded to make the round of phone calls and run a few errands before checking myself into the hospital. First to be called...Bradley...who was SHOCKED that I was heading to the hospital (as was I). Why were we so surprised? I mean, I was 2 days late!! Once we both made it to the hospital and I got settled into my room, I met with the doctor. She told me that they were going to induce me a different way than I was induced with Claire. In most women, it jump starts labor within 6 hours. In a small percentage of women, labor starts within 1 hour and in another small percentage of women, they have to start pitocin (which is what I had with Claire) after the 6 hour mark. Because it took several hours for labor to start when I was induced with Claire, Bradley and I settled in for a long night. His brother even stopped by to see us after he got off of work. Well, during that visit, I started to feel bad...could I have contractions already?? It had been less than 30 mins since I was induced! Well, in less than an hour I was having some serious contractions...the kind that you have to concentrate on....the kind that you cannot talk through. Bradley walked his brother to the car and while he was out there got my overnight bag and a few other things. And while he was gone, labor progressed fast! My labor and delivery nurse was right there with me through it all and said that she thought we would have a baby before midnight! WHAT? My labor with Claire was 15 hours! And didn't the doc say that most women took hours for this kind of induction to start? It had only been 45 mins to an hour!! I was in so much pain, though, that I went ahead and asked for my epidural...before Bradley even returned from the car! He was SHOCKED that I asked for it in that short amount of time. Finally, I got my epidural...and we both thought that we could get some sleep or at least some rest before this baby came. Well...Lauren had a different plan. As soon as I laid down, I started feeling bad. There was no sleep and no rest for me! At 12:48 am on November 23, we welcomed our second baby girl into this world. I was CONVINCED that she was going to be a boy! And THRILLED that she was a girl! I couldn't believe it! We had TWO girls!! We were both so overcome with joy...and surprised...that Lauren was here. My labor was a total of just 5 hours and 15 mins! Start to finish. As I'm typing this, I still can't believe it!

Well, the next few days for us weren't as smooth as the first. We found out that Lauren's bilirubin level was high and she needed to stay in the hospital longer than we expected. She was put on a bili-bed on Wednesday and HATED it. She cried literally all day. We could not hold her, unless I was feeding her. And because she was awake and crying all day, everytime I'd feed her she'd fall right to sleep. By that night her glucose level dropped dangerously low and we were persuaded to supplement with some formula (which devestated me). After quite the ordeal on
Wednesday and Thursday (Thanksgiving Day) we finally got the go-ahead to come home on Thursday evening. We got home at 6 pm on Thanksgiving night. Bradley's parents brought Claire home to us and I finally got to spend some quality time with my firstborn. I missed her so much when I was at the hospital. My heart hurt I missed her so much. The next few weeks with her would be tough. It was a bit of a transition for her, going from only child to older sister. But, after a few weeks, she grew to love Lauren and now asks me where she is and asks to kiss her head when I go to put Lauren down for naps. She is so sweet with her and it fills this Mom's heart with joy that she loves her so much. It's been 2 months since we brought Lauren home from the hospital. The first 2 weeks were tough...Bradley worked A LOT, I slept very little, Claire had some emotional days when I didn't know what to do with her. But, the Lord was good to me...He showed me grace and love and answered my many prayers for my family. Lauren is such a sweet baby. From the beginning, she's really been a great nighttime sleeper. What a blessing! She is now starting to organize her daytime sleep. Here are some other 2 month stats:

~12 1/2 lbs...over 1 lb heavier than her big sister was at the same age!
~smiles a lot...the person she smiles at the most? Big Sister, of course!
~she is a social child. she is calm as can be as long as someone else is in the room with her.
~much to her mama's dismay...she is not sleeping longer than 5 hours at a time at night...however, she will go right back to sleep. I have not had to walk around the house bouncing her to soothe her. So even though I may not be getting a lot of sleep yet, at least I'm not up for hours at a time!

I love this little girl more than I ever imagined. She is a true joy in our lives and often makes us laugh. I always knew I wanted to be a mom, but never imagined being a mom would be SO rewarding! Thank you, Lord, for giving me these children. They are a true blessing and I can't imagine my life with out them.